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My Holiday
Traditions, continued
About fifteen years ago,
after my marriage, my mother, sister and I found a way of making
certain we got some fun time around the hustle and bustle of the
Christmas season, by planning a shopping day at the Galleria. And
in doing so, we created our own Holiday custom. Every year we eat
lunch and finish last minute Christmas shopping. As an added bonus
for my sister and I, this is also when we get to pick out a present
for ourselves from our parents. As the years passed by, we had
children and ended up taking them along. This year, since my sister
and I both have boys, we’ve decided our tradition is going back to
being ‘girls’ only. Taking the boys along seemed to defeat the
purpose: for us to have a relaxing, fun outing. After all, a person
can only take so much, “Is it time to go yet?” and “Can’t we go to
the toy store or the videogame store?”
My favorite tradition grew out of a very difficult and sad time.
About ten years ago, I suffered two consecutive miscarriages around
the holiday season. It was a sad time and neither my husband nor
myself felt in the Christmas spirit. Little did we know it was our
second to last Christmas to be able to sleep in late on Christmas
morning. That morning after we woke and ate breakfast we crawled
back into bed to watch TV. It just so happened that National
Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation was on TV. It was the first time in
several months that my husband and I laughed and enjoyed ourselves.
To this day, some ten years later, we watch the movie together.
Sometimes while wrapping presents Christmas Eve night, and sometimes
much earlier in the season, but we always watch it. It serves to
remind us that no matter how bad things get, we still have one
another and things always have a way of looking up. We also have
two beautiful, rambunctious, healthy little boys to help reaffirm
that all year long.
No matter what your Holiday traditions are I hope they are as
special to you as mine are to me. Happy Holidays.
J.L. Langley writes gay erotic
romance. You can find out more about her and her books at
www.jllangley.com
YULE: Season of Lights,
continued
Monolithic Tribute
Archaeologists once thought the great monoliths at Stonehenge were
aligned to celebrate the Summer Solstice. However, it has recently
been decided it is much more likely the monument was erected to
celebrate the Winter Solstice, for at dawn on this day the sun
shines perfectly along the road that once led to Stonehenge.
Likewise, the great tomb at Newgrange in Ireland is another example
of ancient people’s attunement to the Midwinter’s dawn. Its interior
is illuminated but once a year, when the rays of the rising Winter
Solstice sun shine through the stone lintel and into the main
chamber.
Traditions
Yule has always been associated with peace and charity. In Norway
work had to be reduced to a minimum, and no wheels were turned, for
that would show impatience with the great turning of the wheel of
the sky—the sun. As part of this time neither bird, fish, nor beast
is trapped, shot, or netted.
In Ireland, seasonal activities included:
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Mummers – In what may have been the original custom of
“caroling,” disguised performers went from door to door,
requesting some token for their performance.
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Hunting the Wren – Catching a wren on this day was thought to
bring good luck for the coming year.
Scottish families had a unique use for the remains of the Yule log.
It was placed under the bed of the lady of the house as a charm
against fire, and was brought out the next year to kindle next
year’s Christmas hearth.
Traditional Yule gifts included:
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Fruits studded with cloves and other warming spices
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Cakes made with dried fruit and preserved with spirits (the
inevitable fruitcake we still see today)
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Sprigs of holly or the live plant. Holly was particularly prized
as a decoration for windows, doors, and mantles because its
prickliness was thought to catch evil spirits before they had a
chance to enter the dwelling.
King Holly, King Oak
According to ancient Celtic legend, Winter Solstice marks the time
when the Holly King is strongest, watching over the Goddess as she
bears new life in the dark of the year. Yet even as he stands at the
height of his power, Solstice marks the beginning of his end. For
the Oak King stirs and the never-ending dance of birth-death-rebirth
spirals on.
From this day onward the Holly King will be looking over his
shoulder as the Oak King gains strength with the returning sun; at
Ostara, the Spring Equinox, they will look each other in the eye as
they engage in battle for the hand of the Goddess.
The Yule log burned at this time of year was often made of oak,
symbolizing the Oak King making the final sacrifice of his
summer-season body to ensure the return of the sun. Traditionally it
was kept smoldering, sometimes for as long as 12 days. Its ashes
were scattered on the fields to fertilize the crops. Cut logs were
decorated with flowers and covered in offerings of grain and wine
before they were burned. Later on, in the 18th and 19th
centuries, the French turned the Yule log into a confection. This
“Bûche de Noël” is usually a yellow cake roll covered in frosting to
look like a log.
The old carol, “The Holly and the Ivy” is probably the least
Christianized of the familiar songs we know today. We know the song
as comparing the winter thriving holly and ivy plants to the beloved
figures of Mary and Jesus Christ. Yet the modern rendition still
retains strong winter solstice images like the “holly bearing the
crown,” rising suns, running deer and red berries in the snow.
The original song was probably one called “The Contest of the Ivy
and the Holly,” recounting the contest between emblems of woman and
man, respectively:
Holly stands in the hall, fair to behold:
Ivy stands without the door, she is full sore a cold.
Holly and his merry men, they dance and they sing,
Ivy and her maidens, they weep and they wring.
Ivy hath chapped fingers, she caught them from the cold,
So might they all have, aye, that with ivy hold.
Holly hath berries red as any rose,
The forester, the hunter, keep them from the does.
Ivy hath berries black as any sloe;
There come the owl and eat him as she go.
Holly hath birds a fair full flock,
The nightingale, the popinjay, the gentle laverock.
Good ivy, what birds hast thou?
None but the owlet that cries how, how.
Chorus:
Nay, ivy, nay, it shall not be I wis;
Let holly have the mastery, as the manner is.
Yule Activities
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Winter Cleaning - This is a good time of year for letting go of
the past and preparing for spring. If you are not into spring
cleaning, a midwinter cleaning works just as well. Clear out the
old and make room for the new!
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Light candles in celebration of the returning light.
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Decorate with sprigs of holly. Better yet, buy a plant and add
it to your landscaping in spring.
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Invite friends and family over to share a simple meal, topped
off with a mug of tasty wassail.
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On slips of paper, write down old regrets or other negative
things you’d like to let go of, and burn them in the Yule log
fire. No fireplace? A candle and a fireproof container works
just as well.
Happy Yule!
Gia Dawn is a multi-published author
whose stories are full of fantasy and fun with the heat turned up.
You can check out all her books at
www.samhainpublishing.com/author/gia-dawn or visit her website
at
www.giadawn.com
Carolan Ivey writes paranormal and Celtic-flavored
fantasy romance for Samhain Publishing. Her current release is
Wildish Things. Web site:
http://www.carolanivey.com/
Paying It Forward,
continued
He proceeded to tell me the number of homeless people in our county
and the number of children in that group - 30%. Staggering, not only
that he knew that but that's a huge number of children who are
homeless through no fault of their own. We went shopping for our
9-12 boy and he picked out all kinds of things he might like. My son
had so much fun picking out things for someone else, it really was
truly in the Christmas spirit. He was paying it forward.
My 11 YO also reminded me that the canned food drive is going on at
his school and he wanted to be sure to bring in enough to feed a
family. You know he had the statistics on where the food went,
right? The child amazes me every day. He knew how many pounds they'd
donated and where they were distributed. Without realizing it, I've
raised a socially conscious person who will make a difference in the
world.
Do you remember that movie Pay it Forward? It starred the kid from
Sixth Sense and he taught his single mom how to give. It started
with his homeless grandma and it spread until it touched a whole
community. That boy was killed in the movie and I bawled like a baby
when it happened. It was touching and poignant, and reminded me that
kids are the voice of our conscience. We should listen to them.
A
gift is something we all share with others, not for ourselves. My
greatest joy is my children and to see what wonderful people they
are brings tears to my eyes. We're stuffing the stocking tonight,
and I also bought a soccer ball to put in the "toy shop" at the
Salvation Army for parents to pick out toys at Christmas. The cans
will be going in three trips to the school. It's not a million
dollars or even a thousand, but I am giving what I can. I sincerely
hope what I do makes a difference for a child and a family this
year.
Take a moment to do something selfless and caring this season. Give
a random stranger your parking space, donate an unwrapped toy, give
money to the Salvation Army, or leave a gift on a co-worker’s desk
anonymously. Pay it forward y'all.
Beth Williamson is the author of more than fifteen novels and novellas.
Her current print release with Samhain, Devils on Horseback: Nate,
is a fast-paced western romance that will have you on the edge of
your seat.
Hot On The Trail Of Book
Trailers, continued
But does it work?
Sheila Clover English is a firm
believer that Book Trailers™ are the wave of the future. Do book
videos sell books? “According to booksellers and authors, they do,”
Clover English says enthusiastically. “One major bookseller called
us to say that airing one of our videos increased their on-line
traffic 50 percent. Independent booksellers are even dedicating
online pages to books that have book trailers. You can watch before
you buy. Borders Group, Inc., has featured some of the trailers both
on their site and in their online newsletters. Christine Feehan’s
Web traffic has increased 700 percent since she started showing the
videos on her site.”
“Several booksellers have told me they enjoyed them,” JoAnn Ross (No
Safe Place) said. “Did that make them order more books? Again,
who knows? I can foresee the day when chain bookstores will run book
videos in their stores, the way Blockbuster runs movie trailers. If
I were an independent bookseller, I’d have a computer monitor set up
on my checkout counter, running all the book videos I could find
today. What better way to get customers talking to you about what
kind of books they like to read? Which, of course, opens up the
opportunity to hand-sell more books! And isn’t that what we all
want?”
As the book video market as grown, so has the notice of industry
professionals. The Book Standard highlights five book videos every
week, including author interviews, book teasers, and more. They also
now host the annual Book Video Awards with entries from U.S. film
schools. Publishers have also jumped on the bandwagon and commission
book videos on a steady basis.
So, recently, I decided to put on my
investigative garb and conduct a little survey on the subject. I did
a flash poll where I asked both readers and writers alike to comment
on these two questions: Are book trailers an important factor in
your purchasing of a particular book? Do they matter at all to you.
And the results?
Well, they are as wide and varied as
most things are in the publishing world. Of those who responded to
my poll, I learned that most would watch a video if it is easy to
access and if they had the correct connection (if you are trying to
view a video with dial up it can be very frustrating).
But did it make a difference in
whether or not a possible reader would buy the book? From the
responses I received, I would have to say, no.
So what have I learned from all this?
For me, I’ve learned that book
trailers are useful, and yes, there is a target audience for them,
but I wouldn’t put all of my promotional money or efforts into that
single basket.
The most successful form of
promotion for any writer starts first when an author sits down to
write their book. Write the best book you possibly can, write what’s
in your heart and the chances are you will find your target
audience.
Mary Eason
- www.maryeason.bravehost.com
Special thanks to Allison Brennan (Trail
Blazers article) for your input.
From The
Heart, continued
Lucy Monroe
says:
“Believe in your voice and your stories and don't let anyone but
your editor convince you to make changes that don't mesh with *your*
heart. (Sometimes not even your editor.)” –
www.lucymonroe.com
Rosemary Laurey
says:
"Learn to live with rejection- it's part of the job. Remember this
is a business. Trust the voices in your head." --
www.rosemarylaurey.com
Angela Knight
says:
"New authors who are trying to write erotic romance sometimes focus
so much on the sex that they forget romantic conflict is essential
to making a romance work. Without conflict—without something to
keep the hero and heroine apart—the book gets boring fast. The best
way to keep readers turning pages is to make sure you instill
doubts: how are these characters going to overcome this terrible
problem?" --
www.angelasknights.com
Kimberly Raye
says:
“The biggest piece of advice I can give to any writer (published or
unpublished) is to believe in yourself and your work and take both
seriously. If you don’t, no one else will. It wasn’t until I
started believing in myself and my work that I started to go places
with my writing. At first, it was just to the page, then to a
critique group, then a publisher, and now it’s to thousands of
readers. But it started with me having the faith to sit down and do
it, to value what I was doing, to cherish and nurture it.” --
www.kimberlyraye.net
Shannon McKenna
says:
“The number one best writing tip I ever heard, and you've probably
heard it a gazillion times, has been credited to Nora Roberts. She
said, "I can fix a bad page. I can't fix a blank page." --
www.shannonmckenna.com
Juliet Burns
says:
“Read what you want to write! Pick up newly released books in
whatever genre/ line you are targeting and read as many as you can
get your hands on. This will give you a feel for the type of plots
and characters and, most importantly, the tone of that particular
line. It also gives you an idea what editors are buying. (Or at
least what they were buying a year ago)” --
www.julietburns.com
R. Ellen Ferare
says:
“Keep writing, even as the rejections pour in. Editors sometimes ask
to see your other work if they like your submission. Even if they
can't use what you originally sent in. It keeps the spirits up,
too.” –
www.rellenferare.com
Nicole North
says:
“Make sure your writing is tight. Avoid repetitiveness, weak words,
unnecessary dialogue tags...actually anything unnecessary! Each
sentence should move the story forward.” --
www.nicolenorth.com
Calista Fox says: “Know
your market! Understanding the genre in which you want to write is
key. Know publishers within your genre and read their books. This
will help you write books that fit their needs and style, and reduce
rejection of a great book!
Write
what you love. If you try to write the latest trend, but it's not
your forte—or you're really not that interested in it—your audience
(be it an editor, agent or reader) will know and they won't be happy
with the story. This is especially true of erotic romance. If it's
not up your alley—don't try it! Readers will sense your hesitancy or
dislike for the genre in your stilted prose and they won't be
pleased with the outcome.
Believe in yourself! If writing is your passion and your dream...
keep doing it!”
www.calistafox.com
Cynthia Eden
says: “Not everyone will
love your work—and that's okay. But YOU have to love your work.
Stay true to your voice. Write the story that you want to create—do
not try to fit a preset mold or write what you think is "hot" right
now. Believe in yourself and write the best story that you are
capable of creating.” --
www.cynthiaeden.com
Sandy Wickersham-McWhorter says: “For beginning
writers my most heartfelt advice is to set their fiction in a place
they love with all their heart. That love and familiarity will shine
through the novel and add depth and emotion many books lack. The
setting in such a story can act as a character and further the plot
in ways that readers will love because almost everyone feels a "love
of home and place" for somewhere they've lived. That's why I set
Cottonwood Place from The Wild Rose Press in the Southwest. I
left my heart there after I visited it twice, and my father was
buried in Bullhead City, Arizona.”
Amber Green
says: “Turn off the radio
when you're alone in the car. You can hear the voices in your head
better, and will often come home with just the fragment of dialogue
or description you've been needing.”--
www.shapeshiftersinlust.com
Brenda Williamson
says: “Carry a small
recorder and talk out what's in your head. Works great when alone in
the car, riding the lawnmower, soaking in the tub and anywhere else
you don't feel foolish dictating or acting out love scenes.” --
www.brendawilliamson.com
Larissa Ione
says: “Don’t sweat the
small stuff…don’t get hung up on nits. An editor isn’t going to
reject your book because you had too many “thats” or not enough
commas in the story. Get the big stuff down – plot,
characterization, voice, etc., because sometimes, the little stuff
IS your voice.” --
www.larissaione.com
Ann Jacobs
says: “Sometimes the best
ideas come when you first wake up, so it's a good idea to keep a
tape recorder, pad and pencil, etc. nearby so you can get them down
before they drift away as you go back to get those extra few winks
of shuteye.”
-- www.annjacobs.net
Marcia James
says: “Don't make the
mistake of thinking you can learn the business side of writing AFTER
you get "The Call". You need to learn craft and business
(especially author promotion) simultaneously to be successful.” --
www.marciajames.net
Jacki Bentley
says: “I’d like to remind
struggling aspiring authors to never to give up on their dream to
have readers. Over the years, I’ve seen many, many serious writers
get published eventually – it takes a discouraging amount of time
for some. Windows come open then close in sort of cycles. Use that
time to hone the craft of romance writing. Also, some of the rules
of writing don’t always translate well to romance, so read, read and
read more romance.” --
www.jackibentley.com
Donna MacMeans
says: “Find a local RWA
chapter for support when the rejections come (and they will), for
informative monthly speakers to teach the things never covered in
English class, and for motivation to keep writing and submitting.”
–
www.donnamacmeans.com
Leigh Court says: “My best writing
tip is a riff on the Nike slogan: Just Write It! My previous
occupation was as a television news reporter, so when I think I have
writer's block, or the story is just not flowing, or when I'm
staring at a blank computer screen, I pretend I have that 6pm
deadline for the nightly news and Just Write It! Amazing how
motivating a deadline can be!” -- www.hadleighcourt.com
Now for a
word from an editor with Wild Rose Press
Amanda
Barnett
says:
“For
this editor, a wonderful and intriguing plot captures my interest
every time, but basic writing fundamentals that need work pulls me
back out of what could be an awesome read.
Point of view and
passive/active sentences, etc are all things that can and should be
learned with little effort. However, the meat of a good romance
begins with creativity—and this comes from the heart and soul.
Please, if your dream is to be published, do not give up!” --
www.thewildrosepress.com
Well, that’s
about it. Now that you’ve gotten some great advice from some
remarkable authors, here’s what Anne Rainey says:
“Print this article
and tape it to your wall or desk. Keep it handy when you need a
reminder as to why you continue to put yourself through the torture.
That’s exactly what I plan to do!” –
www.annerainey.com
Anne lives in a small town way out
in the middle of no-where-ville. She is a gorgeous blonde with
wonderful curves and a money tree in the backyard. She never wants
for anything and she always loves everyone. Of course, she wasn’t
always this way.
Visions of the Goddess: The Moon and Her Many Faces,
continued
Astrology was a subject that intrigued me and frightened me
simultaneously. There was so much to learn and I did not know where
to start. However, as the saying goes ‘when the student is ready the
teacher will appear,’ and so he did in the form of a cassette tape,
and on it the voice of astrologer Robert ‘Buz’ Myers.
The more I listened to his tapes the more I
realized he was a masterful wizard. His gift of articulation was
artistic and his depth of knowledge never ending. When he brought up
his idea for learning to live harmoniously through the moon, I was
all ears. I was particularly interested when he mentioned that he
saw, via astrology, a resurgence of the Goddess.
The simplicity of his concept was brilliant.
Eagerly I learned that by simply taking note of what phase the moon
was in, I could get the most out of my life experience. I would know
when to act and when to lay back. All I had to do was track Mother
Moon and her monthly sail across the night sky. With the New Year
right around the corner, this would be the perfect opportunity to
start getting on-time.
As astrologers, we know to start projects, or our
magical workings on the new moon. It is a time to do the legwork,
the preparation for the future. The time when our muse with an idea
sparks us with inspiration. We let it percolate in this new phase.
For instance, I may want to work on inner peace in the coming month.
I allow my thoughts to dwell on these peaceful imaginings.
The first quarter is the time to take my first
action, to reach out to the universe. This is a time to put into
motion what I wish to accomplish. I may begin to meditate on the
idea of inner peace. Lighting a candle in a corresponding color
could be an option as well. You may choose any issue that is
important. It could be abundance, protection, or good health.
The gibbous phase is when information is gathered.
If you are born under this phase of the moon, you may find you excel
at research. This phase evokes the image of the squirrel collecting
nuts for its winter diet. Now is the time to perhaps visit the
library or local bookstore and read up on peaceful living. If you
don’t meditate, now would be the time to investigate where to take a
class.
The full moon is when we become illuminated. We
dive into those books or classes and soak up all the information we
have gathered thus far. We are meditating now, if we have not
before, or maybe we decided to learn Feng Shui. Whatever it is that
we have decided to do, whatever we set our intention at the new
phase, we are becoming at the full moon.
Waning gibbous, or the disseminating phase, is the
teacher. To better illustrate this cycle, it is ‘walking your talk.’
You share your ideas and experiences with others. You may decide to
journal your thoughts and ideas at this time.
The fourth quarter is the phase for action. It is
walking your talk, but more so, it is owning the feeling. If, at the
start of the new phase, you decide to look for work, now is the time
to go out on interviews. If you began your study of Feng Shui, start
changing the placement of certain items in your home. Start simple.
If you seek harmony, buy yourself a piece of rose quartz and add it
to your rituals. Or a small indoor waterfall.
As perceptive women, we know that things do not
change overnight, and your issue that you have chosen to act on will
most likely take a few cycles to work through. But in the end, it is
always worth it. Whether you call yourself a Wiccan, spiritual
seeker, New Ager, astrologer, or any other title, we also know that
during the time of the dark moon, or the balsamic phase, we rest. We
let go of negativity and take time to look within. Introspection is
what we seek now. Knowing that soon it will be another new phase,
and another opportunity to make changes for the better in our lives.
The beauty of working with the moon is that
eventually it becomes a part of you. What you consciously had to
focus on in the beginning will happen on its own. You will get in
sync with the cycles and they will become as natural to you as
breathing. Like the tides, you will ebb and flow as nature calls to
you.
You can make this as simple or extravagant as you
wish. If you are familiar with astrology, you can include the sign
that the moon is in for your task of the month. You can add your
favorite rituals that coincide with the phases. Literally, the skies
the limit. It does not matter what your religious affiliation is
either. You tailor these rituals to your specific system of belief.
My appreciation and gratitude goes to Buz. He
remains one of my greatest teachers and although he gave up his
physical form, I still hear his voice and think of him often when I
gaze at the moon. Now his knowledge is passed on to another
generation of astrologers, as my son listens to the very same tapes
I learned from, many phases ago.
b-ella-donna
Sitting Too Long May Hurt
You
I’m not a doctor. I don’t even play one on TV, but I have a
life-long interest in physiology – the study of the
mechanical, physical, and biochemical functions of living organisms
– and a degree in biochemistry. My reading on the subject of
clot formation in the legs suggests that symptoms can include
swelling, redness, and pain in the affected leg. How many of us
haven’t had some kind of cramp in our legs when we sit for long
periods of time? I’m not trying to be an alarmist, but it’s fairly
simple to avoid this kind of thing. Get up and move around once in a
while!
Simple stretching, or even just flexing your feet and pointing again
for a number of repetitions is a good way to keep the blood flowing,
and your legs happy. Flexing and pointing your feet can even be done
while sitting, if you aren’t able to get up. Rotate your ankles,
straighten your knees if you have room. And don’t do what I do –
don’t sit curled up on your legs! It’s a very bad habit that I’m
trying to break, even as I write this.
In a perfect world, I’d be able to get to the gym every single day.
I used to, back in my fit and trim youth, but as I’ve gotten older,
I’ve gotten a lot busier, and, to my shame, lazier. When I can’t
drag my slothful body to the gym, just getting out and taking a walk
is a very good idea. It’s getting colder where I live, but that’s no
reason not to walk. I can go to the mall and get a few miles in
while window shopping. One good trick I use is to walk up and down
every aisle in the supermarket, including the ones that have
absolutely nothing I need in them.
Wearing a pedometer, you can easily gauge just how much walking
you’ve done, and recent studies suggest that there’s no need to
“speed walk.” You can gain valuable health benefits from a slow walk
as well as a fast one.
A study conducted by the Washington University School of Medicine
found that walking at speeds of 4.5 mph or above used energy at the
same or higher rates than running at comparable speeds. Now 4.5 mph
is pretty fast, but there have also been reports of physiological
benefits from longer, slower walking. Regardless, doing any walking
at all has to be a good thing, right?
As for where to get a pedometer, I’ve had the fancy models and the
cheap ones and they’re pretty much all the same. The more expensive
ones have more features, of course, from being able to calculate how
many calories you’ve expended (though I’m suspicious of those
numbers and what real value they have for me) to the basic functions
of counting the number of steps and doing a calculation, based on
your stride length, to tell you how far you’ve gone in miles or
kilometers. Entering the stride length into the pedometer is
something I’ve always found challenging. First you have to measure
it by walking in a straight line and calculating the total distance
divided by the number of steps you took. Then you have to input that
number into the pedometer by pressing the little buttons in
different sequences according to the manufacturer’s directions –
usually translated badly from Chinese, if you know what I mean.
What I’ve found is that the cheap step counters are just as good.
The most essential data to track is how many steps you’ve taken.
Even the cheap, Dollar Store pedometers have both number of steps
and a calculation of mileage. That’s about all you need. And there
is some benefit to having a few of these little things lying around
because they’re small, and easy to lose.
So, for what it’s worth, I’d encourage us all to get off our duffs
and away from our computers once in a while – or several times
during the day – to move around a little. Your legs will thank you.
Bianca D’Arc is the author of several erotic romance series, most
notably her Dragon Knights, and won the 2007 EPPIE Award
for Best Erotic Romance Fantasy/Paranormal. Her most recent release
is an erotic paranormal called Sweeter Than Wine, released
on December 11th in ebook format by Samhain Publishing.
www.biancadarc.com
Writing During The
Holidays, continued
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Give yourself permission to write. By this I
mean, we get so caught up in cookies and shopping and dinners
and planning and traveling we feel guilty about taking time away
from the season. Which, well, sort of detracts from it anyway,
doesn’t it? Writing is an obligation, a responsibility to those
who are writers. Don’t feel guilty for doing your work.
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Schedule your work. Because we’re harried, we
tend to push everything we can to the side to get our other
stuff done – exercise, writing, etc. So what I do is either set
a weekly word limit or a daily one. If I miss a day, I make it
up the next day. If I have a weekly count and I make it early I
will either use the surplus time elsewhere or get more writing
done (usually the latter). If I have my word count finished, I
don’t have to worry about enjoying the time I have with my
family and when I’m with my family I don’t have to worry about
my writing getting done.
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SCHEDULE YOUR WORK. I’m not joking so let me
say it again. If this means you get up an hour early in the
morning or you stay up an hour later at night, if this means you
take your weekly word count and push it to the weekend and you
get up early, so be it. Whatever you need to do, do it.
That’s it. It’s not complicated although it might
be a challenge to let yourself not feel guilty and to find that
extra time. But truly, by viewing your writing like a job, which
hello, if you’re a writer it is, you can make it through the
holidays with some planning and a bit of dedication and when January
comes, you won’t be scrambling and guilty and making excuses to your
editor.
Lauren Dane has a big assed book due in January
so she’d better put this into practice or she’ll be red-faced. She’s
also the author of nearly thirty contracted novels and novellas –
her current Samhain release, To Do List is a red-hot contemporary
romance with small town heart and a holiday theme.
You can check out her titles and
what’s coming soon for her at her website
http://www.laurendane.com
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